When Usual thing turns Unusual

Two days ago, as usual, after work and dinner, we went to pick Preston up from his nanny's place. To our dissapointment, he did not seem to be excited when he saw us as usual. Intead, he turned his head away from us and towards his nanny who was carrying him. Three of us were shocked by his reaction. Husband and I knew that this was the last thing we wish to happen, we cannot accept the fact that the bond between them are actually stronger than us. But we have no reasons to doubt the attachment between them, because the number of hours he stays with the nanny is much more longer than with us. 12 hours a day during daytime means most of his activities have nanny involved. We only bring him back at night and during weekends, so naturally the priority will go to the nanny.

I know we should not be too obsessed about this whole matter, but we just can't help it. My worry will be that we will eventually not hesitate to do things for him to compensate for what we 'think' we cannot provide him. That is definitely not what we wanted, We don't want him to be a spoilt brat. We want to build love, trust and bond with him.

Daddy and mommy loves you, Kang Kang, please leave a comment when you can read this one day. you will probably not believe what you have just read.

--posted by mama